Introduction: What matters most & why -- 1. Life & the city game -- 2. Auschwitz & a spoon -- 3. the Garden & beasts -- 4. Soup & Nazis -- 5. Seeds & the farm -- 6. Eichman & Wallenberg -- 7. A tic & the clock -- 8. Gypsies & Transylvania -- 9. Mind & body -- 10. Smugglers & icon -- 11. Pain & progress -- 12. Death & basketball -- 13. An accident & Larry Bird -- 14. The store & a beating -- 15. Germany now & then -- 16. King & queens -- 17. Ring & run -- 18. Mettle & gold -- 19. Milk & honey -- 20. End & the association -- 21. Now & when