Introduction: Southern Families at War: Loyalty and Conflict during the Civil War -- 1. Looking for Lost Kin: Efforts to Reunite Freed Families after Emancipation / Michael P. Johnson -- 2. For Better or for Worse: Black Families and "the State" in Civil War Virginia / Michelle A. Krowl -- 3. In the Shadow of the Old Constitution: Black Civil War Veterans and the Persistence of Slave Marriage Customs / Donald R. Shaffer -- 4. "Of Necessity and Public Benefit": Southern Families and Their Appeals for Protection / Amy E. Murrell -- 5. "High with Courage and Hope": The Middleton Family's Civil War / Judith Lee Hunt -- 6. "The White Wings of Eros": Courtship and Marriage in Confederate Richmond / E. Susan Barber -- 7. "Good Angles": Confederate Widowhood in Virginia / Jennifer Lynn Gross -- 8. "A Family of Women and Children": The Fains of East Tennessee during Wartime / Daniel W. Stowell -- 9. Power, Sex, and Gender Roles: The Transformation of an Alabama Planter Family during the Civil War / Henry Walker -- 10. Taking Up the Cross: Conversion among Black and White Jews in the Civil War South / Lauren F. Winner -- 11. In the Far Corner of the Confederacy: A Question of Conscience for German-Speaking Texans / Anne J. Bailey -- 12. Patriarchy in the World Where There Is No Parting?: Power Relations in the Confederate Heaven / Ted Ownby